long ttc, I'm tired(

Discussion in 'Trying to Conceive...' started by Franny, Feb 27, 2017.

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    ladybird345

    ladybird345 Member

    Before I didn't think that reproductive medicine will be my last chance to gain a piece of happiness but not I can say it was my fortune.
    I couldn't imagine I would be so happy knowing that other woman will carry a baby for me. And I suppose this is amazing, thanks my clinic we got a chance to move on, to leave all bad behind.
    the surrogates are great women, they relly help other. And I'm so happy we are on our way of achieving our goal. I wish all infertile couples will be happy soon!!!!!
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    Gwineth

    Gwineth Member

    I understand you very well! Like these are my thoughts exactly. I have been thinking about surrogacy and egg donation as of the last frontiers of the humanity as if not for them there wouldn't be a lot of human beings I tell you. Look at those statistics at all those people that decide to go for surrogacy or egg donation and have kids. those women who basically gift those precious little peas they are indeed saints as I have previously said.
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    Am_elia

    Am_elia Member

    last week she went to maternity house and be there untill the end of July when the birth is supposed to be. I have two months to be prepared!
    I'm going to come there in a month, I guess....but don't know for sure. I'll ask my manager how ealry I need to come. Happy but scary!
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    Gwineth

    Gwineth Member

    Oh that's cool! Congratulations!
    Oh I do not know really know when you should come there but make sure that it is not too late or too early even. Your manager will be telling you when you should be there but it is better to make sure
    Good luck!
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    Am_elia

    Am_elia Member

    Thanks! I'll find out about arrival! I want to be present on labour, I want to be sure that everything's fine with my twins. In addition, There we will need to clear up some legal issues.
    P.S. please,don't be offended, I'm so sorry but at one point I lost your story. remind me please where are you in your treatment?
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    Gwineth

    Gwineth Member

    IS that even possible? to be present on the labour? It is supposed to be a very private moment and is it ok? I think that you should trust your doctors more with this..
    I am expecting a baby! That's fine, there are a lot of people and no one is expected to be aware of others' progress. :)
    xx
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    Am_elia

    Am_elia Member

    Well yeah! I mean I want to be near the room when the labour starts. I want to be with them on there first minutes of life. I want them to see me, there mom.
    that's wonderful! how is your pregnancy going? I hope everything's fine?
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    kellysweet

    kellysweet New Member

    Being present at the labours is very contradicting thing. I'm waiting for my surrogate to deliver a baby for us, but I doubt I would want to see my baby being born. You know the thing is that the doctors might allow you to be there.. but you must be absolutely convinced that you would help being present there.. or at least won't do any harm.. I mean those people who chose to witness such a process more often just make the mother feel more nervous instead of reassuring her and making her feeling calm and peaceful.. and thinking about what's going on with her and not being distracted with the strange person in the room that is about to faint :) or something like that.. I know that is mostly about men's behavour while watching the wive's labours .. a woman would cope with the emotions much better in the case... but still you might think twice here...
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    Am_elia

    Am_elia Member

    I didn't think about it by the surrogate mother's side...Maybe you are right....I definetely want to be present, because she will give birth to twins and it means it has more risks, but I'll ask the doctors and most important I'll ask our SM. But I don't think she would be against us. Anyway I want to be just near the labour room, not inside.
    When will be your due date?
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    kellysweet

    kellysweet New Member

    That's not about whether your sm or the doctor against your presence or not... I meant you might be absolutely sure you would cope with the emotions youself and wouldn't have any negative influence on the whole process.. Anyway think twice here..
    As for our pregnancy we've just got our 21 week scan and are soooo excited ..That's the mid-pregnancy scan and we could easily get the information on any abnomalities that might exist.. We were happily explained we don't have any of them ..The picture is sooo cute.. I'm the happiest mother in the world..And we made sure all the babies organs and limbs etc are developing as they should.. :)

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