Hi ladies, I've been wanting to do this for some time. I've had tons of iuis and ivfs, and they've all failed, and unfortunately I was dumb enough to share them to close friends. Maybe 5th time will be the charm. I'm trying to take a humorous attitude for the next 2 weeks. So, what's the meanest/cruelest thing somebody's said to you about your infertility? Mine: 1. couldn't you just ask your sibling to give you a baby? 2. can you go adopt a new born? they're everywhere. 3. why are you looking into international adoption when there're all those domestic foster kids? 4. you're too stressed. most people succeed without help the moment they give up. you should try that. 5. why do you want kids anyway? What is it you need from it? 6. You can take my kid to the zoo if you just want to experience being with children. 7. Why don't you go be a nanny? There're all sorts of moms out there looking for a helper. That way, you can be near children. 8. You need to move on. You still have a family, siblings, the rest of us. You don't need a child. 9. you know, when you're around children, and you try to love them, your body releases a hormone that makes you pregnant. Try to love the children around you. 10. I think I can cope with childlessness any day better than a sick kid. What if you need to choose between being childless and having a sick kid? I'm hoping you ladies would be able to top me, or else I seriously need to stop talking about inferility with my friends.